Hello and Welcome Back to my blog!
It’s been a while since I’ve posted on here! Truth be told I had writers block and I wasn’t really sure what I wanted to post! So I took sometime out to figure out what I wanted to do with my blog and the direction that I want to take it in. I’ve got a long list of ideas that I will be working my way through. I’m so looking forward to growing this blog page! I will be bringing a mixture of different content to my blog. As I like to change things up so that you my lovely readers get can get to know me better.
I hope everyone is staying safe during Covid-19 ! I was furloughed from my job but I am now back at work. The adjusting to the new norm of working is strange. But I know that the new norm of working will be beneficial in the long run.
Anyway’s i feel like I’m rambling on , so it’s time to get into the topic that I want to post about!
💖 & 🤗
Sandra
Confidence and Self Belief
Growing up confidence was always something that I thought I had in abundance!
It soon became clear that as a pre teen and having confidence/self belief was always a taboo subject to talk about!
Through my teenage years I was frequently bullied, picked on and called names! As you can imagine this left me with very low confidence and self belief.
Fast forward to leaving secondary education, I applied to enrol onto some further education at college. This was a huge step out of my comfort zone. It was also a massive step away a from what the norm was for me.
Starting further education at college is the best decision that I have ever made. Making the transition from secondary education into further education at college was a very rewarding journey for me. It gave me a sense of being able to achieve an end goal if i applied myself and put in the hard work.
Back then I had a dream of being a Personal Assistant. I attended many interview but was always told that whilst I have the qualifications I lacked the job experience. So in interviews I would always ask the question “How am I supposed to get the experience when I am not being given a chance to show hat I can do the job?” I am still working towards this career, It will always be my dream job and I know that whats for me won’t go past me. I guess what I am trying to say is that it just comes down to it being the right kind of time for it to happen. Throughout my time in further education at college I learnt so much more than I though was ever possible. After being in further education at college and trying to land my dream job with many set backs I realised it was time to put it on the back burner! The above experience also taught me that I had the confidence and self belief to step out of my comfort zone and push the boundaries.
Knowing now that the timing wasn’t maybe right for my dream job. It has helped shaped me into the outgoing and bubbly person that I am today. Everything you go through has a lesson within it. It’s what we learn from what we go through that makes us the successful people that we all so rightly deserve to be!
It has taken me a while to get to where I am today! But I am proud of the growth I have made over the years. I am a stronger person now than I ever thought was possible. My friendship circle has also grown immensely. I have the best support network and I’m super grateful and appreciative for all the love, support and guidance that I’ve had from people!
I’m a firm believer of everything happens for a reason. Also that every scenario/ life experience we go through teaches us something. It teaches us that we are often so much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. I can confidently say I’ve learnt many life lessons throughout my 33 years on this planet. I also know that i have so much more to learn too.
I’ve learnt that the confidence and self belief that you put out into the world/ the things you are passionate about comes back to you in abundance when you least expect it. In every situation/scenario confidence and self belief are key! These two elements go hand in hand. It’s best to have here both working side by side. They help make you fell like thou can chase any goal/dream/ambition that you set your mind too.
Whilst I’ve not always been the most confident person. I am learning on a daily basis that I need to embrace my inner confidence and self belief more. It has also taught me that it’s ok to show my more vulnerable side too.
We all have an inner voice that needs to be heard. I’m at a point in life where I want to use mine for the greater good. My main goal Is to inspire and encourage other people to talk up and to be proud of what they’ve achieved etc.
To you the reader thank you so much for reading this post. I know it’s a long one but I feel like I have been able to cover a lot. I hope it inspires you to use your voice.